Thrive After the Affair!... Spring Into A New Life... New Joy... New Attitude...

By Dr. Max Vogt
Nevada City, CA

Hello, Friend... My name is Dr. Max Vogt, and I am a Licensed California Psychologist. My practice is located in Nevada City, CA, and my state license number is PSY 13317. I'm married and have a wonderful relationship with my wife, Pam Givens, who is also a licensed therapist, Board Certified Sex Therapist and author. We like to travel, fly fish together, garden and enjoy time with our friends.

I have graduate degrees from two universities, and have devoted my adult life to helping people with all kinds of emotional issues through my therapy practice, through supervising other professional therapists, teaching, and writing books and courses to spread the message of emotional health and happiness. I hope you can recognize that my only desire is to help you here, because I am going to have to ask you some personal and very painful questions since...

You Were Betrayed and Now You Find
You "Can't Move On"

If that's too painful for you to face head on... if you can't even think about moving on right now... if you don't believe you can ever feel really good again... or trust anyone again... if you feel you can't stand hearing about it... if you aren't ready for the challenge of true forgivenesss (not the weak kind)... please... stop reading right now.

And if you are going to be offended... by some dismissal of the "old ways of forgiveness"... including the "religious" methods... please stop reading right now... this will be too rough for you.

However, if you're ready to hear the secrets of truly moving on to pure joy after betrayals and affairs... truly forgiving... bringing full ecstasy into your life... (less than 1 out of 10,000 people know anything about this)... well, if that's the case... then... this will be the most inspiring and exciting message you ever read.

Dr. Max Vogt
Licensed Clinical Psychologist, bestselling author

Profile: Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Marriage and Family Therapist, business consultant, and trainer, 27 years of experience in private practice and working with agencies, bestselling author of many books, videos and courses, trainer and professional supervisor of licensed therapists... developed many new assessment tools for business and psychology. Work with clients from childhood into old age in therapy practice, and from solo entrepreneurs facing business challenges to major corporations in team-building, risk assessment, sales and management effectiveness and creating new avenues for increased profitability and sales margins.

Education: Ph.D. in Psychology from William Lyon University, Post Graduate Training at multiple facilities including the Family Institute (Family Systems Therapy). Fellow and Charter Member of the Prescribing Psychologists Register, and many others..

Professional Accomplishments: Work in private practice and agency clinical settings with children, adults, families and couples... individual therapy, group therapy, family therapy and couples therapy. Conducted dozens of seminars and workshops in many areas. Supervised hundreds of other therapists. Bestselling author of books and courses, including "You Don't Have to Change Who You Are to Have a Great Marriage" (Morgan James, NY, 2007). Developed "The Marriage Blueprint" assessment, identifying the 8 primary marriage styles. Consulted with entrepreneurs, small businesses and major corporations.

Office Phone (530) 265-6165 Pacific Time USA

"...'very specific' and absolutely new ways to get true joy in your life after betrayals... be prepared for a change"

Can A Person Be Happy ALL The Time?
The Answer Might Surprise You...

Here is why: Thanks to a huge wave of open-mindedness that we are learning in the new global era, people are discovering new... totally different... ways of dealing with problems... and we aren't just accepting the "old ways" anymore... which is to feel guilty and sinful... we are discovering that we deserve to feel good, happy and totally fulfilled... and that we don't have to hang on to crippling pain.... and the old ways of thinking about forgiveness... just don't work.

The old ways are breaking down and being replaced.... guilt and pain are becoming a thing of the past. Your normal desire to break free of the prisons of the old ways... is shared by millions of other people. It has become "OK" to admit that you want to be happy... truly happy... deliriously happy... and that no, thing can or should ever stand in your way... even with all the pain and suffering going on around you!... and that is is possible to feel happy, joyful and fulfilled ALL THE TIME, no matter what is happening to you or has happened to you.

And if your "spiritual intuition" is working at all, you already know, deep down, that a life free of the burden of guilt and shame... living in genuine forgiveness... of yourself and others... is the true foundation of a satisfying life.

There's just one small problem: No one actually tells you... precisely... how to forgive and move on.

Yes, "forgiveness experts" have "an" answer. "Pray and let go" and that sort of thing (I warned you this was going to get rough).... well... that simply does not work. Have you ever tried to stop thinking of pink elephants? You can't do it. Pound on a pillow and get the frustration out?... no... Talk it through with the person?... absolutely not, doesn't help... read inspiring books about people who have forgiven others?... Uh, no... meditate?... I'm sorry, it doesn't work... You cannot try to forgive, let time be the cure, pray it away, talk it out... these standard things -- NONE OF THEM WORK! And if you are hanging out hoping that "time will heal all wounds"... I suggest to you that this might be a mental disorder.

It will take me only two seconds to prove this to you... because you already know it's true. You tried one... two... three... every method you could... and you still cannot move on.. you are still stuck... you are still haunted... you still feel bad and are confused.

Ok, I have to admit, I'm angry about this.

You see, nearly every other "forgiveness information" book, tape, video or course I've seen on the market is nothing more than this:

They Are Just Making

An Desperate Attempt to Shame You Into "Feeling Better!"

That's right. You are told to do these things... pray and let go... pound on pillows... meditate... and then when they don't work for you... these "experts" treat it like it's your fault their techniques didn't work... and that's not what you needed at all... to feel like a failure once more because you didn't "do it right."

Just for one example. My patient Renee was betrayed by her husband. Her priest told her to pray and let it go. She tried and never did feel any better. Then he implied that she wasn't sincere in her prayer to God, and that she didn't really want to move on, and was rebellious. Now she had been betrayed twice... once by her husband... once by her priest.

Frankly... that infuriated me! But by showing her a few simple techniques, we righted the situation in short order. Thank goodness! She was about to give up hope.

Most of the so-called "forgiveness experts" you see and hear on television... do not know anything... about the specific new technologies for truly forgiving and moving on... the truly superior, simple methods available. In fact, their only advice is to "calm yourself" or "get it out" or "talk it over."

Those things are fine as far as they go, but they don't go very far... because...

No Real Forgiveness Can Exist Where There Is
You Lack the Specific Technical Skills to Forgive...

Anyone can call themselves a "forgiveness expert." Pretty much every single priest, pastor, minister, rabbi, therapist, counselor... and next door neighbor... thinks they know exactly "what is good for you" and how you should "forgive and move on."

But not one expert in a thousand ever learns one single effective new thing from all the powerful research and information that comes out.

Almost everyone who thinks they know anything about forgiveness is living in some Ancient Dark Ages about what truly works to help you move on after betrayals and affairs. Not only will what most of these people tell you NOT work, but it could very well bury you further into your pain, darkness and agony... than ever before... keeping you frozen like a deer in the headlights.

It's Not Your Fault You Don't Have the Skills to Forgive and Move On
...Not 1 In a 1,000 Therapists or Counselors Do Either

Now it's really going to get rough. Warning.

The people in my field of mental health... psychologists... therapists... counselors... the ones who should know better.. are the worst of all They are stuck in some of the oldest and worst approaches to forgiving that exist. They think that "talking it out" will help you.... that's like throwing gasoline on a bonfire! You are better off just shutting up and meditating... it doesn't work, but it won't make things worse.

And that's why I'm mad. Therapy works wonders. It's a blessing, and I'm deeply grateful for it. Counseling definitely can work... but not in this area... not until you have the Technical Skills to actually manage your thoughts and feelings... not until you have directed those energies with powerful techniques... not until you have already done the true forgiving inside of yourself, using the right technologies. Without the proper skills, all you are going to do is blow up... explode... cause more damage... like throwing each other onto broken glass. I'm warning you!

It's a mess out there: Millions of people need the skills to really forgive and move on... and they get this kind of nonsense for their hard earned money.

It's just not fair. However there is....

The Most Exciting News About Affairs and Forgiveness
In a A Very Long Time

Listen: You aren't the only one who is lost on how to forgive and move on after betrayals. I was very confused myself for a long time. Personally I've experienced some betrayals... and wanted some answers... but after seeing the incredible, mind-wrenching and devastating betrayals suffered by many of my clients... I had to figure out how to help.

I consulted books on betrayal and forgiveness including the Bible... spiritual gurus... the top guns in the psychology business... the top therapy trainers... ministers... ancient teachings... I estimate I spent 10 years and about $120,000 in fees, materials, seminars and every other form of education available. Nothing... sweet well-meaning people... some techniques about other things which were incredibly effective (such as handling panic or depression), but not forgiveness after betrayal... interesting "ideas"... but no real technology which will teach you the clear, simple skills to forgive and move on.

Then, it came to me in a flash...

I would take the best of the best of all this teaching... pick up the powerful technique that has been proven to help with depression... the one that is proven to work with anxiety... the one that increases confidence... the one that helps learning and mental sharpness and memory... and combine it all into a powerful package which would help people truly forgive and move on after betrayals... even the deepest ones.

I pooled these synergistic powers... created simple techniques... started using them with clients... and... was totally blown away by what happened.

People who had been stuck... sometimes for years... in some cases even for 20 or 30 years or more... wasting away in pain and simply stuck in their lives... suddenly felt better, more confident, more powerful... they had forgiven... they had moved on.

I have to admit that I was stunned...

And excited. I've used all my spare time over the last decade to improve and refine those already spectacular techniques I had developed from combining the teachings of the best in my field of psychology. After all this research and development, I now know things about betrayal and forgiveness I never would have even guessed about before. Here are some of my amazing discoveries:

First, Something like 99% of all people, when they have suffered a betrayal, do the exact same things... the worst things possible... the things that almost guarantee that they will feel worse, not forgive, and for sure not move on to have a better life.
Second, Most people continue to use the same techniques to help themselves forgive and move on that their parents and grandparents did... things which never worked for their ancestors... but they still keep doing. And what's worse, they continue to do the same things even when they recognize that these techniques do not work... In other words, they keep doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results ("insanity").
Third, They keep consulting people who themselves never had success forgiving and moving on... their friends, family and counselors who know nothing at all... and then try to follow the advice... this same advice which they actually recognize will never work... and in many cases... makes things far worse in their lives.
Finally, I have seen that there are a small handful of people... who... have possession of these very same secrets (when you know a secret for some reason you find the few others who do too) and they have described... exactly the same astounding, shocking results when they use the forgiveness techniques I discovered. But most of them haven't taught them... they simply found no need and recognized that probably no one would believe it if they saw it anyway... and they were already happy in their own lives. Some teach these methods at "underground" seminars... but mostly they are unknown

But the most amazing thing of all I have discovered is that knowing these forgiveness techniques... often discovered in desperation because people had to find out some way to survive incredible betrayals.. have had other... totally... unexpected results... even more powerful results than they expected... Namely...

A New Almost Unstoppable Feeling of Joy and Relief
Peacefulness... Unexpected Personal Power... Confidence
Came Flooding Into Their Lives,
Super-Charging Everything They Did!

I had seen this happen with clients using the new forgiveness techniques... suddenly they were completely relieved.... you could see it in their faces and body language... they described reclaiming their lives... and then had the surprise of their lives when they discovered more energy than ever before... the ability to learn and maintain information far better than ever before... a confidence and self-assurance they had never known...

But being a scientist, I was skeptical. I thought maybe just the sheer relief of getting out from under the huge burden of betrayal just felt so good that it seemed such a relief... and that they just didn't remember what their lives were like before. So I decided to do an experiment.

I asked a number of clients who had been successful with these forgiveness techniques to let me interview people who had known them for a long time... prior to the relationship where they had the betrayal. So I interviewed parents, siblings, even a couple of former teachers... and to my surprise... they said that my clients had flat out changed... become like someone new with a new personality... still the same person... only livelier, more full of energy, more positive and more hopeful... and also more patient and kinder.

Well... this floored me. But then when I began to ask other colleagues who know these secret forgiveness techniques about their experiences... they said the same thing! More energy... more patience... more hope... more confidence than ever before.

I said before, most of us just "make do" with what happens to us. We try to "get by" and handle things. We think that the old ways of managing our lives were good enough for our parents and grandparents, and should be good enough for us...

But I say to heck with that!

Why should you and I settle for a humdrum accept-it-all-without-complaining existence... just getting by... if we can have incredible happiness. joy, positive energy and hope... every day.. all the time? The answer? We shouldn't settle for less.

Amazingly... right at this moment... when you are suffering confusion and betrayal... is the most important time for you too to shift right into this other... more positive... more effective way of life. A life of joy. After such suffering... can you imagine?

It is Our Birthright
To Be Joyful and Happy All the Time...
All We Need is the Skills...
It's NOT About "Positive Thinking"

Anybody who tells you otherwise is trying to "bring you down" to their way of thinking. You know.. misery loves company?

You also know, if you are suffering at the hands of betrayal by another person... never forgiving... never moving on... you are miserable... and everyone around you is infected by your misery. Fortunately now we know... like our parents and grandparents did not know... that much of our suffering is optional. And that even though there is suffering in the world... and sometimes people betray one another... you can still have joy and happiness all the time.

I know, this is a radical view. It might sound "airy-fairy"... and I wouldn't believe it myself if I had just now heard it. We've had more than enough "just think positive and you'll be positive" and all that rubbish. That's more of the same old fashioned "The Secret" nonsense we know doesn't work.

What does work is technique. Simple, clear technique.

You just apply it as directed. 21 days. That's it. Just do the 21 day program as directed, and you will forgive... move on... have a more positive and joyful life... not by willpower... not by some fairy dust... not by drugs or other medications... but by the sheer power of your mind understanding and following you effortlessly into forgiveness and a state of wellbeing.

You see... it's pretty mechanical. Like a car engine or a computer. Your brain needs specific instructions... in a specific, precise order... and it automatically leads you to forgiveness... personal power... energy... and life force.

That's why I have created an amazing book/course revealing the clear and simple 21 day program I developed. This new program jump starts you into a the new skills. It's easy, straightforward... clear... and works like a charm.

You Simply Download It...
Start the 21 Day Program Five Minutes From Now

It is very simple to understand... and... 100 times more detailed than anything else you've ever seen about forgiveness. It's only a few minutes a day... you can rush ahead if you like... some people finish the entire program in a day... it's entirely up to you. Here's a taste of what is revealed to you in this program:

How to "target" the real betrayal... not what you think it is... (shocking, page 14 )
The Number One Rule that will propel you into forgiveness, even if you try to resist (turn to page 6 )
The simplest way to feel your confidence growing... this can save you years of suffering (quickly turn to page 29 )
How to guarantee that every thought you have increases your feeling of hope (this alone is worth it! page 21 )
The "10-minute secret" that completely protects you against any future betrayal (SO simple, you might kick yourself for not thinking of it before, page 30)
The "secret reward" you will get by saying an 8 word sentence... and fuels your feeling of relief every single day (Not one person in 10,000 will even guess at this "fail-safe" phrase... which puts you way ahead of even the "forgiveness experts"... you can teach them a thing or two)....turn to pages 18-22
Why even the "forgiveness experts" fail to understand this simple technology, even after spending their whole lives trying to understand it... and how you now will understand it and use it immediately, even if you've never tried it before... turn to page 37 for the answer
The single biggest roadblock almost everyone runs into when they try to forgive... and how knowing this gives you personal power and knowledge nearly beyond imagination... (Quickly turn to page 44 for the answer)
The "little sentence" to say to yourself which mysteriously unlocks other people's power to control you... and puts you back totally in control (This technique is so simple... and... so little-known... even 99% of therapists don't know about it.) pages 48-55
The little-known "trick" which ends your feeling of being out of control... forever! page 68
The secret to spiritual happiness (not taught by 1 in 10,000 "experts..." who haven't even heard of it) page 55
Why we almost never see the "danger signals" that give an early warning of betrayal... and how you will be able to spot it a mile a way from now on (this simple technique will create more security in your life than you ever thought possible...instantly...) page 15
The gift of real "trust"... what trust really is and how you can have it without ever risking pain again (Almost everyone... and especially therapists and counselors... get this one wrong, wrong, wrong) Turn to page 23 immediately after getting this program.
How to get into a deep, total confidence and joy... and... stay there forever! (You will never feel alone again.) turn to page 57
The real reason why medication is so popular in this country! (Almost no one... even doctors... understand the startling implications.) page 33
Seven "very specific" secrets anybody can use in any situation of disappointment or feeling hurt... which will immediately relieve you of the burden of suffering... These techniques will allow you to immediately let insults or betrayals slide off of you like water off a duck's back... turn to page 44

"... even insults or unkindness just slides off you like water off a duck's back with these techniques... you move through your life joyfully and powerfully... you are literally unstoppable... and you now can do anything you dreamed of doing... without fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of insult... it's like a shield against almost all hurt...
It's like the Holy Grail of Martial Arts, but in Human Relationships!"

And that's not all... not by a long shot! This incredible program will get you re-launched... even after devastating betrayal... into a life so exciting it's almost beyond description. It gives you everything you need to become a master at the "martial arts" of human relationships.

However, I have to warn you... this material is not for everyone.

You Might Make Others Nervous
With Your Sense of Calm, Sustained Energy...
And Ability to Handle Everything Life Hands You...
And Come Out Smiling...

For one thing, you may have to give up some of your most cherished ideas or beliefs to be truly happy and joyous... for example, if you believe in unforgivable sin... or if you believe that people were born to suffer... or if you think that you are a hopeless sinner... or... if you think that only punishment of your betrayer will satisfy you... or if you are a member of an orthodox group... or a member of a cult which does not allow you to take charge of your own life... then this program is not for you, and I would highly recommend you consult the guru or leader or priest or counselor you got those beliefs from and ask them what to do.

If you find it impossible to believe that you could be happy and joyous 100% of the time... then... this might not be for you.

It could undermine your whole view of life and create a personal tension and surprise for you... and maybe you could not handle the rush of joy, power, energy and enthusiasm that you will experience using the techniques in my program. Truly, you may find that others around you become uncomfortable when you step out of your usual self... and get new personal power. It might create trouble for you.

And there are other reasons you might not want this program. Those "other" reasons might be very personal. These techniques might be too much for you... I understand... I just want you to know that such techniques exist, which can propel you much higher than ever before.... I sincerely hope I did not offend you in any way... and the download link for the program is right here below the cover to the book:

click here to download the 21 day program and move on

I thought about the price for this program for a long time before I settled on $39.95.

My wife Pam said $99.95 but I said that's too much. It's definitely a fair price, but that might put it out of range of a lot of people. She agreed that we can try $39.95 for a while, but thinks it should be raised soon to $49.95 or $59.95. She's not greedy at all, she just knows how hard I worked on this and what it is worth. See, she uses these techniques with her patients too, and knows how powerfully and quickly they work. So, at least for now, it's $39.95, definitely a bargain. Let me explain:

First of all, if you were to hire me to work with me personally, my current fee is $300 an hour. I've been in practice 27 years and I have secrets and powerful techniques which work in 1/10th the time of other therapists approaches... so it's fast, but still a minimum of a few hours at $300. And besides, you couldn't get an appointment with me if you tried, I'm booked solid.

Then, there is the fact that you can only get this information from me. It conservatively cost me $120,000 to acquire, and several years of experience to develop and perfect..

So I believe... and know you will agree with me... that $39.95 is an outstanding bargain.

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Next, I offer a full, one year, personal guarantee on this program. Please... use it doggedly for one full year after your purchase... give it a workout... do everything in your power to try to prove I am wrong and this program won't work for you... do your best... and if after up to one full year (365 full days)... you decide you didn't get exactly what I promised and guaranteed you... then just write me and I'll personally help you directly. My current fee is $300 an hour, but I will waive that for you and help you for FREE. Just let me know anytime. Like I said, it isn't for everyone (although almost everyone will hugely change to the better in their life and get all the benefits I promised)... so just drop me an email, and I'll personally see to it that you get your money back quickly. Fair enough?

click here to download the 21 day program and move on

And, again, thank you for reading this. I hope that I have already helped you overcome any and all betrayals... and given a little guidance toward a better, happier life for you.

And I wish you all the personal power, confidence and joy you truly deserve to have in this life,

Dr. Max, marriage counseling

Dr. Max Vogt

marriage counseling, marriage therapy, sexual affairs

NOTE: For those of you who want to know more about my background before ordering, please read the information under my photograph at the top right of this page.

click here to download the 21 day program and move on

P.S. Some people might still have questions about whether I literally mean that "you can be happy all the time," as I state in the early part of this letter. I've gotten a lot of emails about this and whether I mean it as it is stated above... and the answer... is yes... I do mean it just like I said it, no more, no less. Just as it is written above.